Early Thanksgiving Dinner from Grey Bears

We received our early Thanksgiving dinner from Grey Bears on November 8, 2025. Last Saturday, Paul and I rushed through our breakfast, and set off to Grey Bears' headquarters to pick our holiday dinner. 

Festive volunteers greeting us

Seeing a long line of cars ahead of us, we knew that we were definitely not the first in line. Guided by sets of volunteers in visible vests, our Tesla crawled forward, turned around the dead end to drive past the Bears Electronic Recycling Center. Such a busy traffic scene was a sharp contrast to the quiet Saturday morning exactly a week before. 

Moving forward to turn at the road end

We finally inched our way into the Bears yard. To make more room in a tight yard space, all vehicles were ordered to make four or five lanes, so as to be called upon to receive our dinners at the kitchen gate. Like many years before, everything was well organized with proper signs and cheerful volunteers tasked with specific duties. 

Lanes were created to make more room in a small yard

Unlike the past tradition, one could order online up to six dinners without having to specify the name for each receiver. One name was ample. The new system seemed to be more streamlined. Once one's name was checked by one volunteer, a colorful shopping bag or more would be waiting at the gate, depending on the quantity of dinners. Colorful bags turned out to be donations from Santa Cruz New Leaf Community Markets. It is another streamlined item for Grey Bears this year. Instead of clumsy handlings when several dinners were involved, roomy New Leaf bags can hold two or three dinners easily.

Grey Bears in full swing for holidays

By the time we left the yard, we saw the line of waiting cars not only not diminishing, but growing to the corner of Chanticleer and Soquel Avenues. Curiously, no one seemed to be in an anxious hurry, but hopeful. Perhaps, they shared the same feeling as we did: we were indeed fortunate to live in such a supportive and generous community. Politics could swing left or right, but our local community was something we could always rely upon. Grey Bear's early Thanksgiving Dinner is one living example. 

Second in line to pick up our holiday dinners

Crossing Whale Bridge on Veterans Day

It has been my wish for some time to cross the Whale Bridge erected in July 2025. It is a bicycle and pedestrian crossing over Highway 1 to connect the Chanticleer Avenue that is cutoff by the highway. Since the day it was conceived, the bridge has been attracting negative speculation and complaints about too few users, due to its long curved span, rather than a conventional straight shot over-crossing. 

Much Ridiculed Cracked Mandilion  

Shortly after 2:00 pm on this Veterans Day, Paul and I decided to embark on our humble adventure, in order to see for ourselves if the controversy was worthwhile. After half a mile from our home, we arrived at the foot of the bridge. Indeed, the much criticized whale medallion at the entrance was cracked in a few places. As the cracks were the same color as the rest of the design, they somehow blended in nicely and even gave some weather-beaten characteristics. 

Highway 1 South Traffic on Veterans Day

Once on the bridge, we noticed a sharp contrast between the serenity around us and tremendous traffic on Highway 1 South. There were about five pedestrians and cyclists on our way over. In about a quarter of a mile, we reached the other end of the bridge, finding ourselves looking at the buildings of Grey Bears and its Electronic Recycling Center on our right, and Santa Cruz SPCA on our left, which solved the mystery of dog walkers on the bridge. Since we were on the campus of Grey Bears, we might as well do some shopping at its Thrift Store, where we spent $2.19 to replace our worn out lemon squeezer and an aqua blue basket. 

SPCA Dog Walker

On our way back, we saw much busier foot traffic. There were about 15 people, walking by themselves or with dogs, and some riding standard or electric bicycles. It is a safe route with high and strong railings sealed on both sides of the crossing. Perhaps to offset their severity, a total of 18 metal whale cutouts were attached, eight on the southbound side, and 10 on the northbound. 

Whale and Paul

The Whale Bridge is quite a feat and improvement to our local area and life, after a construction cost of about $34 million sourced from Measure D sales tax, State Senate Bill 1, and regional funds. Unlike the famed rail-trail debate, the bridge is standing tall and proud! From the bridge we can have a better nearby view, including the water purification facility. 

Water Purification Facility

Happy Birthday, Paul!

The celebration of Paul's birthday this year can be characterized by three words, quiet, but busy and joyous.

Owing to the unusual quietness over the weekend, Paul could not help but feel a little curious. I did a pretty good job by keeping under wraps Nick's coming on Monday, until on the eve of his birthday when Paul asked me if we expected anyone the next day. Once the cat was let out of the bag, I happily took the blame for not keeping my vow. But it was worth it, for Paul was much happier and more expectant since.

Nick did not roll in until after 1:00 pm, due to the unexpected Caltrain's roadwork on Highway 17 South. Before then, Paul attended his noon Midjourney session with Peter and Claire, while I went to the Buttery to pick up the cake. It all worked out nicely.

The rest of the day, we chatted and cooked in the kitchen. In addition, Nick helped Paul to reinstall the Norton Utilities. Before dinner, Paul and Nick went out for a drive, which gave me a little breathing space for completing the cooking and cleaning up. Around 6:00 pm, we started our birthday dinner with our turkey-tofu soup, salad, green beans, baby cucumber, meat spaghetti, and finally pan-fried swordfish. I was pleased that everything turned out just right, although no one actually noticed any difference, except for the cook herself. 

Birthday Card from and by Leni & Paulie

The Buttery's tiramisu cake lived up to its fame. Together with our ice cream, we had a hearty dessert. With phone calls, piles of cards and gifts from friends and families, it was a truly great birthday celebration, which was continued by a FaceTime with Leni and Paulie around 11:00 pm. They were anxious about the feedback of their handmade birthday card. Papou reassured them that it was beautiful and well-loved.

It is a productive and creative year for Paul. In less than one year, he has won three photo contests in Santa Cruz Good Times. Congratulations and Happy Birthday, Paul!

SUNSET DRIVE taken amongst the happy people enjoying the sunset at West Cliff 
Photograph by Paul Titangos
Courtesy of https://www.goodtimes.sc/the-editors-desk-11-6-24/ (29 October 2025)

FLASH OF GREEN captured Jan. 5 on Seacliff Beach
Photograph by Paul Titangos
Courtesy of https://www.goodtimes.sc/the-editors-desk-31/ (5 February 2025) 

EGRET BALLET taken from the cliff that runs along Pleasure Point 
Photograph by Paul Titangos
Courtesy of https://www.goodtimes.sc/the-editors-desk-11-6-24/ (5 November 2024)