An Evening with David Sedaris in Santa Cruz

After quickly finishing our dinner yesterday evening, Paul and I set off to the Santa Cruz Civic Auditorium to see David Sedaris at 7:30 pm. By the time we arrived, we saw big crowds and an endless queue in front of the auditorium. To our amazement, the fast-moving queue was by no means shortened but augmented by more ticket holders behind us. Once seated in our designated seats, we saw the auditorium all but empty. Where did the people ahead of us go? Before long our question was answered. Right before the opening time, the lobby became quieter but the auditorium was instantly filled up around, above and below us. Two sections of folding chairs down in the center were also filled.

To celebrate the closing night of Sedaris's national tour, the whole population of Santa Cruz seemed to show up for the evening event. After a lifetime of practice, David Sedaris has turned his book reading into an art of live performance. While flipping through a stack of cards from his articles, notebooks or diaries, he transported his audience effortlessly to his airport adventures, African safari with his open jeep surrounded by seven lionesses, literary festivals in Pakistan, small talk in the elevator of his tall luxury apartment building in New York City, and the most poignant of all, his loss or betrayal of friendship by his introduction of Pattie to Dan, a better-off childhood neighbor and friend in North Carolina.

While performing his art, Sedaris has managed to inserts his viewpoints on world politics, and society. His satires on fashionable cultural appropriation, and prevailing pronoun requirements were not lost on his audience, or his humor on foreign language learning programs, Doulingo vs. Pimsleur. His satirical view of dogs, particularly those "rescue" ones and their self-righteous owners, brought waves of laughter from the audience. Sedaris is a master to open our eyes to a world outside our mundane existence, by combining simplicity with complexity, writings with entertainment, and personal life with political and cultural commentaries. No wonder so many people in Santa Cruz came to be entertained by him this evening, including a large percentage of the elderly and sickly on walkers!

Reunion with Friends Near and Far

Paul finally reunited with Pearl and Manu Gennai of Switzerland on April 25, 2024 in Santa Cruz. The couple, along with their 6-year-old daughter, were his travel companions in Africa in 1981. They were all waiting then for their visas to go to Sudan. Forty-three years later, the itch of traveling took over. The couple had been on the road for months on another global trip, without the daughter who was long retired with her busy life.

The Gennais stayed at Robert and Deborah’s. It is there that we had our first reunion evening. It turned out that Pearl and Deborah Bone shared a mutual friend in Switzerland. It was quite a reunion for them too after over half a century. The host and hostess treated us to a wholesome family dinner that consisted of soup, salad and cheeses, and homemade bread. Afterwards we drank wine and champagne interlaced with chocolates. 

Paul, Pearl and Manu

Pearl and Manu 

Pearl and Manu told us about their work in the conception of smart city, their five daughters (one of whom has been transgendered to a son), and properties in Italy, and France on the border with Switzerland. Apparently they had made many wise choices in life, including their travel accommodations with residence exchange, a plan similar to, but better than timeshare with a more flexible time and geographical coverage around the world.

Manu, Pearl, Robert, Paul and Deborah 

Robert, Deborah, Paul, Manu and Pearl

Six of us resumed our gathering the following evening at our home. We had egg rolls and sushi as appetizers, and salmon steak as our main course. Drinks and conversations flowed smoothly. We learned in depth why Deborah was in Switzerland, how her nursing degree fit her family tradition with a doctor grandmother and a pacifist academia father (John Bone who wrote Negro novel in America). We were also confided to in detail about the daughter of Gennais, their much too abbreviated transgender process, and philosophy of cultural appropriation. On this topic, Deborah offered her view about the generation differences between the 1960s and today. The older generation tried to change society with their free love, while the new generation focused on changing themselves, in order to change society. We were also reminded of the sobering fact that United States is still the world leader. For this reason, it needs to make wise decisions for the world.

We departed around midnight and promised each other we would keep in touch. First, Manu and I should be connected on LinkedIn. Second, we would share with Robert our orchid bulbs. Third, we would venture out as much as we could. See you Pear and Manu, and see you in the Staff of Life, Deborah and Robert!